Dolores V. Incao Obituary

Dolores V.  Incao
Dolores V. Incao

April 10, 1934 - March 15, 2020
Born in Manville, New Jersey
Resided in Bridgewater, New Jersey


Dolores “Dolci” Incao
1934 - 2020

Dolores V. Incao, 85, of Bridgewater, NJ, a retired Executive Secretary who was a member of Saint Bernard’s Church died March 15, 2020. She was born to her parents Josephine (Lutinski) and John Peltack on April 10, 1934, and raised in Manville with her siblings Francis, Louis, and Irene (Pernini), all of whom predeceased her.

A 1952 honor graduate of Bound Brook High School, Dolores raised 3 children and worked outside the home while relocating with her family 3 times before permanently returning to the area in 1974 and retiring from Johnson & Johnson in 1997. Her beloved husband, Joe, predeceased her in 2009.

A keen knitter and member of the St. Bernard Prayer Shawl Ministry, “Dolci” was kind, caring, loving and generous. She was a devoted daughter, sister, wife, mother, grandmother, cousin, aunt, great aunt, and friend too many. She cherished her time with her grandchildren and enjoyed being involved in their lives. As such, she was a fan of the Clemson and Auburn Tiger football teams. She thoroughly enjoyed her time at the Jersey shore. An avid beach goer, she enjoyed all the season had to offer- crabbing, sunsets, ice cream, and happy hours with family and friends.

She is survived by her children: David (Heather), Janet, and Robert (Michele) as well as her grandchildren: Rachel, Jane, Alexander, Emily, Matthew, and Christopher as well as many extended family members and friends.

Prayers will be said 9am Friday at the Bruce C. VanArsdale Funeral Home, 111 N. Gaston Ave, Somerville followed by a 10:00am mass at St. Bernard RC Church, Bridgewater. Internment will follow at Sacred Heart Cemetery in Manville.

Visitation will be 2-4pm and 7-9pm Thursday at the funeral home.

The family requests that in lieu of flowers, please donate to St. Bernard of Clairvaux or, a charity of your choice in Dolores’s name. To send condolences to the family visit




Bruce C. Van Arsdale Funeral Home
111 North Gaston Avenue
Somerville, NJ US 08876
Thursday, March 19, 2020
2:00 PM - 4:00 PM
Thursday, March 19, 2020
7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
St. Bernard of Clairvaux Church
500 Route 22 East
Bridgewater, NJ US 08807
Friday, March 20, 2020
10:00 AM
Sacred Heart Cemetery
98 South 2nd Ave
Hillsborough, NJ US 08844
Friday, March 20, 2020


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